My tattoo won’t be a butterfly.

October 2019

Butterflies have somehow become a symbol of hope after death. They are often watercolored on those little programs at the funeral or stamped on a memory plaque.

Butterflies live about 1 week.

If they are lucky, they drop dead at 2 weeks. But often, before that, they end up on my windshield. Or in the belly of some scraggly bird.

Don’t let the painted wings fool you, it is just a flying insect- likely dead tomorrow.